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THE WAIT

One of my good friends had trouble in sleeping this past few weeks. I asked him what was the dilemma all about and finally he came up to me confessing he’s madly and crazily in love with this one girl he met 2 months ago. Obviously, no guy in his right mind would confess how he is in love with this girl. He explained to me how this girl is simple and just conservative. Well, he really did explained superbly. Only he had one more purpose why he told me his love insomnia, he wanted me to teach him how to court. HOW TO COURT. [I said to myself, “Am I going to explain this to every man out there who doesn’t know how to court?” Fvck this moral responsibility].

So, how to court a girl? Honestly, there is no such guidelines or approved ways on how to court a girl. You just gotta do it your way because the girl you’re going to court would have to fall in love with you and your ways and hat tricks on making her feel loved, not these stupid ways and guidelines on how to court a girl that just some guy created and told you to do this and that. That is stupid. Do it your way dude. You’ll ace it on your own.

Actually, my friend told me that he asked me to teach him because I am in a relationship right now and he can see that I was one of those sincere and not-a-jerk-dick-ass guys that dumps and plays with girls. [NO BRAGS :D] I told him how I courted my girlfriend. I told him to bag all of his patience he’s got cause he’s going to need all of them. To start with, you yourself can say if a girl is in to you or not. It’s a guy thing. Well, if she is, then you’ll expect good response from her when you’re about to court. If in case she is not, then you’d better stand up and show off! You have to put some extra efforts in making her fall in love with you accordingly, in a nice and romantic way. Next is on ways to show off. No one could ever best describe the girl that you love but you yourself cause of course, you are the one who’s in love with her, not the guy who gives advises to you. So adapt your ways to court her upon her hobbies, like, dislikes, food, etc., any that’ll please her. All of these can be done by you yourself only and later on it’ll become play. You’ll risk it just to see her smile and have fun with you. Lastly, never ever forget to tell her you love her. Say it like you’ll never have the chance to say it again tomorrow. You’ll know by this time what’s next. Just do it. She’ll see it.

Here is one of the most hardest part of courting, her “YES”. Her sweet, loving and her ”giving-up her love “YES”“. It is the “WAIT” which is considered the crucial part. You’ll have to keep on courting her, impressing her while waiting for her acceptance of love. You’ve got to be patient and passionate enough to let her show that she’s the one you’ve been looking for. It took me 18 months to court the girl I cherish much but never ever for 25 months now that I regret any of those patience because they never went to waste. It was all worth it. You’ve gotta risk it to get the biscuit as the saying goes. You can do it for the girl of your dreams. Yes you can. Remember that if she’s worth it, you’ll not give up. If you’ll give up, you’re not worth it. She will eventually give up. That’s all of I can say.

P.S. Not for jerk-dick-ass guys’ USE. For those who are in love only :)